Do us oldies ever have one? A good night's sleep I mean! Usually the answer is no, but last night I actually had a straight 8 hours! Sex is the answer.
The young are usually horrified to even think that anyone over the age of 35 actually knows what sex is, let alone perform it! During a past married life of 36 years and having 3 children, only goes to prove that I actually had sex at least 3 times, but at that time it was more a duty than anything else. Now I am in a very loving and happy relationship things are very different. The care and willingness to please and thoughtfulness are so much to the fore. More time is taken too, (it has its advantages being retired, with no job to rush off to!). We don't have any inhibitions either. I am not too concerned that everything is so much lower and fatter than it was before and if we don't quite get things right at any particular time, it doesn't matter, we will try something different next time. The fact that 'next time' may be a day, a week, a month or so away, has no relevance either. We care for each other and have love and time for each other and can show that love in so many other ways, that in fact mean far more than actually making love, that a hug, a laugh, a joke, quiet time together take on a different meaning and show that we are completely in tune with one another.
We are very happy together which is the main thing and today we are off in our motorhome for a few days. I will try to keep up with this. We have now gone WiFi - to try to keep up with everything and if I can manage it will put a few photos on here as well.